"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tongue question?

Toushi

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Ok, this is going to sound like a troll, and some of you will accuse me of being one, but I won't care...

So, I've been evolving with girls, and realized that I'm really close to get my first kiss. Ok, it's natural and I'm not worried (just a bit). What I'm worried about, it's french kissing... You know, when you use the tongue.

So, you people know that under our tongue, is kinda this piece of flesh holding it, right? So, mine is a bit different from other people. It retains my tongue. I was born this way, and the doctors said it won't affect my way of speaking, so they didn't cut it. I guess they didn't worried about kissing... Suckers.

So, my tongue can't "go out" as normal people. It's like it's smaller! Don't that sucks? You know when you stick out your tongue to someone you're making fun of? When I do that, my tongue can barely get out of my mouth.

So, I don't know if this will affect my kissing, but I'm worried it will.

If you think this is stupid and I'm trolling, don't post. It isn't easy to say something like this. I know it's a stupid thing, but it's true. Bleh. :down:

Any advise/opinion?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cash

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If you don't know, there's only one way to find out... Kiss a girl.

If you still have problems, see your doc.
 

SamePendo

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AdviCe.. nope, but encouragement, yes.

99% of us guys may love kissing or having sex or whatever, but suck at it. Chances are, even if it's your first kiss, you will be better than most guys who have kissed 30x more than you.
 

flippinfreak

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Toushi, like a kid with downs right?

Yeah, those guys only have to worry about saying something stupid.

I've got a friend who's a DJ at a radio show and he's got downs.

Down right cool mofo, stupid as hell, but he's got no fear...

He can stick his tongue out just past his teeth! He's got no problems with the girls, I think they enjoy being the ones who try to make him choke on their tongue.
 

penkitten

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sometimes less is more.
i would rather have a little tongue action compared to someone trying to touch the back of my throat with their tongue.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DasaniWater

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My gf is the same way! I can barely kiss her.. i think its cute though. I have to do all the work... she hates getting her toung sucked too. WHY?!!?! Its my favorite thing. Has anyone ever seen Face off?? Where he asks the girl to "suck his toung" on the air plane. I thought it was a good thing to do. but she hates it.. :cuss: :confused:
 
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