MikeYikes122
Master Don Juan
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Haha, yes!!LJC said:As a Pats fan, the whole GQ element Brady brings into my football disturbs me. I want the QB of my favorite team to spit nails. If only he could knock some b*tch out cold with a right hook...
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
And a big chunk of child support...which means he is not as smart as people think.paintballz said:i agree, he literally has it all! first off is SUCSESS, looks, charisma, swag ect... money and fame isnt in the equasion.
Dude...he gets all those dates because he is FAMOUS and a MILLIONAIRE.thefonz said:HAHA, she definitely wanted his **** Sunday night, no doubt.
Tom Brady is also a huge DJ believe it or not. The Boston Globe asked him how he goes about dating and he said, "Never let a girl know you're interested right off the bat. She should leave the date wondering, 'What's wrong with me?'". No wonder he's so successful with everything.
Of course the media scolded him for saying that but that's the price we pay. Goddam I love the Patriots.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I disagree here.Latinoman said:Dude...he gets all those dates because he is FAMOUS and a MILLIONAIRE.
Very RARELY a person under those circunstances could be considered a DJ. I like Brady (my favorite player too)...but no DJ goes into getting himself in such child support situation. It is indeed VERY stupid.
It is THEIR choice. Some want to bag all the "hot women" and others simply don't want to.MikeYikes122 said:I disagree here.
Of course, all famous and rich guys are going to get hot girls, but there are those rare male celebs who seem to bag all the hottest women. Brady is an example of this. Derek Jeter is an example. Justin Timberlake is another. For a few more classic examples: Warren Beatty and Scott Baio.
I think after you take a look at this link you're going to agree with me:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Warren_Beatty#Personal_life
Some famous and rich guys simply are naturals or have learned how to adapt the DJ mentality. Guys like Timberlake, Beatty and Brady have the best of both worlds: They are naturally good with women and they have fortune and fame.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm sorry, but you are wrong, and I don't like the tone of your post or really any of your posts for that matter. One line sticks out to me "it's amazing how you guys fall for some of this crap". You have no idea how many times I've rolled my eyes at stuff I've seen you write on here.Latinoman said:It is THEIR choice. Some want to bag all the "hot women" and others simply don't want to.
But thing you will need to certainly learn in life...VERY RARELY "rich and famous" goes hand on hand with DJism.
Brady was NOT naturally good with women BEFORE he became a football player. Same goes with the vast majority of those actors and famous people.
It is amazing how you guys fall for this crap. You want to be impress? Watch the man that clean toilets for a living and then manages to get laid with HOT women.
Dude...you misread my post. I didn't praise him because lots of chicks want him. What I was saying was that he has a DJ mentality. Read it again.Latinoman said:Dude...he gets all those dates because he is FAMOUS and a MILLIONAIRE.