MikeYikes122
Master Don Juan
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Haha, yes!!LJC said:As a Pats fan, the whole GQ element Brady brings into my football disturbs me. I want the QB of my favorite team to spit nails. If only he could knock some b*tch out cold with a right hook...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
And a big chunk of child support...which means he is not as smart as people think.paintballz said:i agree, he literally has it all! first off is SUCSESS, looks, charisma, swag ect... money and fame isnt in the equasion.
Dude...he gets all those dates because he is FAMOUS and a MILLIONAIRE.thefonz said:HAHA, she definitely wanted his **** Sunday night, no doubt.
Tom Brady is also a huge DJ believe it or not. The Boston Globe asked him how he goes about dating and he said, "Never let a girl know you're interested right off the bat. She should leave the date wondering, 'What's wrong with me?'". No wonder he's so successful with everything.
Of course the media scolded him for saying that but that's the price we pay. Goddam I love the Patriots.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I disagree here.Latinoman said:Dude...he gets all those dates because he is FAMOUS and a MILLIONAIRE.
Very RARELY a person under those circunstances could be considered a DJ. I like Brady (my favorite player too)...but no DJ goes into getting himself in such child support situation. It is indeed VERY stupid.
It is THEIR choice. Some want to bag all the "hot women" and others simply don't want to.MikeYikes122 said:I disagree here.
Of course, all famous and rich guys are going to get hot girls, but there are those rare male celebs who seem to bag all the hottest women. Brady is an example of this. Derek Jeter is an example. Justin Timberlake is another. For a few more classic examples: Warren Beatty and Scott Baio.
I think after you take a look at this link you're going to agree with me:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Warren_Beatty#Personal_life
Some famous and rich guys simply are naturals or have learned how to adapt the DJ mentality. Guys like Timberlake, Beatty and Brady have the best of both worlds: They are naturally good with women and they have fortune and fame.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'm sorry, but you are wrong, and I don't like the tone of your post or really any of your posts for that matter. One line sticks out to me "it's amazing how you guys fall for some of this crap". You have no idea how many times I've rolled my eyes at stuff I've seen you write on here.Latinoman said:It is THEIR choice. Some want to bag all the "hot women" and others simply don't want to.
But thing you will need to certainly learn in life...VERY RARELY "rich and famous" goes hand on hand with DJism.
Brady was NOT naturally good with women BEFORE he became a football player. Same goes with the vast majority of those actors and famous people.
It is amazing how you guys fall for this crap. You want to be impress? Watch the man that clean toilets for a living and then manages to get laid with HOT women.
Dude...you misread my post. I didn't praise him because lots of chicks want him. What I was saying was that he has a DJ mentality. Read it again.Latinoman said:Dude...he gets all those dates because he is FAMOUS and a MILLIONAIRE.