MikeYikes122
Master Don Juan
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Haha, yes!!LJC said:As a Pats fan, the whole GQ element Brady brings into my football disturbs me. I want the QB of my favorite team to spit nails. If only he could knock some b*tch out cold with a right hook...
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
And a big chunk of child support...which means he is not as smart as people think.paintballz said:i agree, he literally has it all! first off is SUCSESS, looks, charisma, swag ect... money and fame isnt in the equasion.
Dude...he gets all those dates because he is FAMOUS and a MILLIONAIRE.thefonz said:HAHA, she definitely wanted his **** Sunday night, no doubt.
Tom Brady is also a huge DJ believe it or not. The Boston Globe asked him how he goes about dating and he said, "Never let a girl know you're interested right off the bat. She should leave the date wondering, 'What's wrong with me?'". No wonder he's so successful with everything.
Of course the media scolded him for saying that but that's the price we pay. Goddam I love the Patriots.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I disagree here.Latinoman said:Dude...he gets all those dates because he is FAMOUS and a MILLIONAIRE.
Very RARELY a person under those circunstances could be considered a DJ. I like Brady (my favorite player too)...but no DJ goes into getting himself in such child support situation. It is indeed VERY stupid.
It is THEIR choice. Some want to bag all the "hot women" and others simply don't want to.MikeYikes122 said:I disagree here.
Of course, all famous and rich guys are going to get hot girls, but there are those rare male celebs who seem to bag all the hottest women. Brady is an example of this. Derek Jeter is an example. Justin Timberlake is another. For a few more classic examples: Warren Beatty and Scott Baio.
I think after you take a look at this link you're going to agree with me:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Warren_Beatty#Personal_life
Some famous and rich guys simply are naturals or have learned how to adapt the DJ mentality. Guys like Timberlake, Beatty and Brady have the best of both worlds: They are naturally good with women and they have fortune and fame.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm sorry, but you are wrong, and I don't like the tone of your post or really any of your posts for that matter. One line sticks out to me "it's amazing how you guys fall for some of this crap". You have no idea how many times I've rolled my eyes at stuff I've seen you write on here.Latinoman said:It is THEIR choice. Some want to bag all the "hot women" and others simply don't want to.
But thing you will need to certainly learn in life...VERY RARELY "rich and famous" goes hand on hand with DJism.
Brady was NOT naturally good with women BEFORE he became a football player. Same goes with the vast majority of those actors and famous people.
It is amazing how you guys fall for this crap. You want to be impress? Watch the man that clean toilets for a living and then manages to get laid with HOT women.
Dude...you misread my post. I didn't praise him because lots of chicks want him. What I was saying was that he has a DJ mentality. Read it again.Latinoman said:Dude...he gets all those dates because he is FAMOUS and a MILLIONAIRE.