"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tom and Gisele Hire Divorce Lawyers

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No. The problem with Western marriages is that women leave their husbands. The woman files 80% of the time. Marriage is not just some throw away relationship because the wife “feels differently.”

Gisele married an obsessive, GOAT (greatest of all time) NFL quarterback. He is the ultimate leader of men, and has been for nearly three decades. She is a fool to think it is her right to dictate when he stops playing.

Shame that this is now old school thinking:

Is he unemployed?
Is he physically abusive?
Does he have substance abuse issues?
Are hves running through the house?

If the answer to these is no, she needs to go figure out how to work things out with her husband.

Instead, she is choosing the streets where she belongs.
The problem is that Brady wants to have it both ways and can't. The drive to make him the greatest of all time from a 6th round draft pick is the same drive that doomed this relationship.

Nothing else matters to him when football season starts. And once it ends, it's time to work at getting better incessantly during the off season.

Brady in short, is a form of addict. But his addiction isn't money or fame or power or alcohol or drugs or gambling. It's the drug of winning it all and it's a pretty powerful one. So powerful that like any other addiction, it forces you to do things that to follow it at any cost to relationships or family.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The problem is that Brady wants to have it both ways and can't. The drive to make him the greatest of all time from a 6th round draft pick is the same drive that doomed this relationship.
Gisele is the problem. Not Brady. She chose to marry the GOAT. Now is mad she can’t control him. She’s choosing the streets where she belongs.
 

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Gisele is the problem. Not Brady. She chose to marry the GOAT. Now is mad she can’t control him. She’s choosing the streets where she belongs.
Maybe...or maybe she simply wants someone that puts their family first over himself constantly.

Long term relationships take a lot of work on both sides. You'll find out if you last that long.

This whole "I do whatever the fvck I want" act won't work, I promise you that.
 

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Maybe...or maybe she simply wants someone that puts their family first over himself constantly.
That is false choice. A man focusing on his passion and career does not come at the expense of family. The wife’s role is to be supportive.

Long term relationships take a lot of work on both sides. You'll find out if you last that long.

This whole "I do whatever the fvck I want" act won't work, I promise you that.
The problem is his ex supermodel wife is in competition with him. She’s fed up with being an NFL wife. Likely has extreme resentment from taking a backseat to him all those years.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I didn't either. But now I'm getting an idea of how he has seven Super Bowl rings.
He did have 3 before they met.

Also, Tom Brady made Bill Belichick. Bill Belichick was nothing but a subpar to mediocre head coach before Tom Brady and nothing but a mediocre head coach since Brady left the Patriots.

Bill Belichick was probably one of the 3 best defensive coordinators the NFL has ever seen. His time as Defensive Coordinator under Bill Parcells with the Giants was spectacular.
 

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He did have 3 before they met.

Also, Tom Brady made Bill Belichick. Bill Belichick was nothing but a subpar to mediocre head coach before Tom Brady and nothing but a mediocre head coach since Brady left the Patriots.

Bill Belichick was probably one of the 3 best defensive coordinators the NFL has ever seen. His time as Defensive Coordinator under Bill Parcells with the Giants was spectacular.
I would say Belichick is responsible for 3 of his rings: the first two (while Brady was still a game manager) and the last one against the Rams (when he completely outcoached Sean McVay according to McVay himself). Still, Brady was the bigger contributor to the Pats' success, especially when you consider his salary sacrifices (this is where having a millionaire wife doesn't hurt).
 
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I would say Belichick is responsible for 3 of his rings: the first two (while Brady was still a game manager) and the last one against the Rams (when he completely outcoached Sean McVay according to McVay himself). Still, Brady was the bigger contributor to the Pats' success, especially when you consider his salary sacrifices (this is where having a millionaire wife doesn't hurt).
The Brady-Belichick era had a lot of Super Bowl appearances. In the 2010s, the Super Bowl was one of the only Super Bowl games I watched most years.

Super Bowl parties in my social circle turned into New Year's Eve type litmus tests on coupledom. It got so unpleasant I stopped going and the friend who hosted the most Super Bowl parties eventually moved away.

Super Bowl 48 in Feb 2014 between the Broncos-Seahawks was an awesome Super Bowl party for me. Then, Super Bowl 49 between Patriots-Seahawks in Feb 2015 turned into a massive couples party. The Seahawks gifted the Super Bowl to the Patriots on that one. They needed to run Marshawn Lynch into the end zone there. A bunch of my friends got into relationships in between those two Super Bowls. Every Super Bowl after that turned into a miserable affair unless I could bring my own girlfriend.
 

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The Brady-Belichick era had a lot of Super Bowl appearances. In the 2010s, the Super Bowl was one of the only Super Bowl games I watched most years.

Super Bowl parties in my social circle turned into New Year's Eve type litmus tests on coupledom. It got so unpleasant I stopped going and the friend who hosted the most Super Bowl parties eventually moved away.

Super Bowl 48 in Feb 2014 between the Broncos-Seahawks was an awesome Super Bowl party for me. Then, Super Bowl 49 between Patriots-Seahawks in Feb 2015 turned into a massive couples party. The Seahawks gifted the Super Bowl to the Patriots on that one. They needed to run Marshawn Lynch into the end zone there. A bunch of my friends got into relationships in between those two Super Bowls. Every Super Bowl after that turned into a miserable affair unless I could bring my own girlfriend.
The only arguments for running Lynch on 2nd down (the interception play) are 1) Russell Wilson sucks at throwing over the middle, and 2) A rollout to get Wilson away from pressure could potentially take too much time. Carroll's strategy was sound, because if you run Lynch twice and he gets stopped both times, the game is over without using the 4th down play. If you run Lynch on 2nd down and he gets stopped, the Pats know Seattle has to throw on the next play (3rd down) given the circumstances.

Lynch also had a bad year that year in short distance situations, and the year prior he'd fumbled twice on consecutive plays against the 49ers in the championship game. Him scoring was hardly a sure thing.

Wilson just made a mediocre throw that got picked on a great play by the cornerback (Malcom Butler)

What made the prior year's party awesome? The game was a blowout. The first play was straight out of the Three Stooges and it went downhill from there.
 
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The only arguments for running Lynch on 2nd down (the interception play) are 1) Russell Wilson sucks at throwing over the middle, and 2) A rollout to get Wilson away from pressure could potentially take too much time. Carroll's strategy was sound, because if you run Lynch twice and he gets stopped both times, the game is over without using the 4th down play. If you run Lynch on 2nd down and he gets stopped, the Pats know Seattle has to throw on the next play (3rd down) given the circumstances.

Lynch also had a bad year that year in short distance situations, and the year prior he'd fumbled twice on consecutive plays against the 49ers in the championship game. Him scoring was hardly a sure thing.

Wilson just made a mediocre throw that got picked on a great play by the cornerback (Malcom Butler)
Running the football was designed for gaining small amounts of yards and pass plays are supposed to cover more yards.

If a team can't run the ball for 1-2 yards, they are not championship worthy. In 2015, Lynch was one of the best RBs in the game.

Russell Wilson being bad at throwing over the middle is a good enough argument not to throw on 2nd down with 27 seconds remaining.

What made the prior year's party awesome? The game was a blowout. The first play was straight out of the Three Stooges and it went downhill from there.
The Super Bowl 48 in February 2014 party was good simply because there were no girlfriends there. Few people in my social circle were in relationships then. The ones that were in relationships at that time either did not attend that year's party or didn't bring their girlfriends mainly because the relationship was rather new. Fast forward one year to Super Bowl 49 in February 2015 discussed above and all the dynamics changed. All the guys were bringing girlfriends and all Super Bowl parties in my social circle from that point forward became romantic relationship litmus tests. Some of the girlfriends (later wives) in my social circle are biatches. Additionally, there were 2 intense male battles for certain girlfriends in the circle, creating some messy dynamics within the group. The presence of the girlfriends irked me. They didn't need to be there. They could have done some girly thing that day, like having a girly get together where they talked fashion (perhaps about Gisele Bundchen) or something else. Let us men have a Super Bowl get together.

I like poker or blackjack games because men don't typically bring their girlfriends to those.

Having a Super Bowl party become a romantic relationship litmus test seems rather unpleasant. I stopped going to our social circle's Super Bowl parties and eventually the circle stopped having them. The Patriots-Rams Super Bowl (53) in 2019 mentioned earlier in this thread where Belichick totally outcoached McVay was the last one the social circle had. I didn't even watch the most recent Super Bowl (56).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'd be curious how many of you would suck Tom Brady's dvck if he let you? Lol

I'm sure both of them will be fine. Marriages among the rich and famous can't be compared to those of everyday people.. The only marriage I can think of lasting so far is Tom Hanks.
 

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I'd be curious how many of you would suck Tom Brady's dvck if he let you? Lol

I'm sure both of them will be fine. Marriages among the rich and famous can't be compared to those of everyday people.. The only marriage I can think of lasting so far is Tom Hanks.
Well that's partly because Tom (Hanks) likes kids.
 
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