and i feel more depressed than ever. im not excited or happy or anything right now. to top it off, me and my best friend have been having like a weird rough patch kinda thing right now and i really wanted her to come to my party but she isnt. she said her parents arent letting her, but shes not 13 anymore and i dont beleive that really. i think i just give up on our friendship if she doesnt come tonight. i feel like an idiot trying to fix things when she doesnt give a **** at all. i didnt even want a present from her or anything, all i wanted was to spend my birthday with the person i care the most about. well happy ****ing birthday i guess.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
todays my birthday....
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You are down. You are feeling sorry for yourself.
Having a fight with a best friend is never easy. Try and see why you two are in this and why this 'fight' is a bigger deal than the friendship itself. Sometimes best friends get into stupid little arguements about unimportant things. One of you is gonna have to be the wise man/woman and get over their ego.
I realize I don't have a clue as to why you are in this rough patch but i'll bet it is meaningless in the long run.
Happy birthday anyways, man. Enjoy your party, take your mind of the girl for a while and later on think things through.
Having a fight with a best friend is never easy. Try and see why you two are in this and why this 'fight' is a bigger deal than the friendship itself. Sometimes best friends get into stupid little arguements about unimportant things. One of you is gonna have to be the wise man/woman and get over their ego.
I realize I don't have a clue as to why you are in this rough patch but i'll bet it is meaningless in the long run.
Happy birthday anyways, man. Enjoy your party, take your mind of the girl for a while and later on think things through.
Smooth as Anything
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Grow-up you *****.
I don’t know either, its just like we cant talk to each other how we used to and we hardly see each other anymore and when we do, I don’t even know what to say to her. Me and her talked about this once already and for like a week, everything went back to normal again and than on like Tuesday, everything started going downhill again.Originally posted by Caveman
You are down. You are feeling sorry for yourself.
Having a fight with a best friend is never easy. Try and see why you two are in this and why this 'fight' is a bigger deal than the friendship itself. Sometimes best friends get into stupid little arguements about unimportant things. One of you is gonna have to be the wise man/woman and get over their ego.
I realize I don't have a clue as to why you are in this rough patch but i'll bet it is meaningless in the long run.
im having a all my friends over and we’re going to play some poker, have some beers, and I guess the girls want to play poker tooOriginally posted by JSH
Happy Birthday, what kind of party are you having.
OK!Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
Grow-up you *****.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
Smooth, you need to grow up yourself *****.
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What you need to do is buy a big dog and grow a marijuana plant. Like it was planted on your B-day and it will be of senitmental value or something, just make sure they're females.
I'll take 15 bong hits in your name bro if that helps the situation any.
I'll take 15 bong hits in your name bro if that helps the situation any.