Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I do genuinely get a lot of compliments from women at social events and when i go to bars clubs telling me how good looking i am and sexy.
In my experience, most women don’t make direct comments regarding your looks. Typically something more lame like, “I like that shirt”, “I like your shoes.” I can count on one hand the number of comments regarding my looks after 50 years. One time while in a Taco Bell drive-through many years ago. Two Mexican girls were giggling, talking and checking me out. Little did they know I speak Spanish and understood everything they were saying. Sad that I remember that so clearly even though it was 30+ years ago. Another cashier looked me dead in the face and said, “you have beautiful eyes.” I told the woman that was waiting for me and she matter of factly says, “yeah, you do have pretty eyes“ like it was no big deal. Part of me was thinking that she was actually trying to discount the other woman’s compliment to draw my attention away from her.