"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Today I turned 20. Give me one piece of advice

Desdinova

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TheCWord said:
They're all getting married now, feels like there's at least 3 weddings a year lately and more coming...
The year I got married, three of my other friends got married. All four of those marriages have ended. You will likely see your friends returning to the single life in their 30s.

I wish to hell I could have focused on getting myself positioned in a home-grown business in my 20s. Circumstances never turned out that way. I ended up moving out of my parents' house at age 20 because it was too intolerable there, getting engaged, then having her leave me devastated. Enter sosuave...

I spent the years after getting my own personal garbage fixed and sorted, married a cvnt, and had a baby.

Only now do I see that I could have spent the decade of my 20s on much better things. I still would have had enough time for dating a wide variety of beautiful women in my 30s, which is what I'm doing now. Don't get me wrong, my life is pretty good. I have my 5hit together really well, but I could have been better off.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A HB10's sh!t sprays the bowl after Mexican food too!

Never pedestalize women.
 

TheCWord

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Desdinova said:
Don't get me wrong, my life is pretty good. I have my 5hit together really well, but I could have been better off.
It doesn't matter if you came out hot out of the gate or made a late push, as long as you win the race.
 
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