"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheCWord said:
They're all getting married now, feels like there's at least 3 weddings a year lately and more coming...
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The year I got married, three of my other friends got married. All four of those marriages have ended. You will likely see your friends returning to the single life in their 30s.

I wish to hell I could have focused on getting myself positioned in a home-grown business in my 20s. Circumstances never turned out that way. I ended up moving out of my parents' house at age 20 because it was too intolerable there, getting engaged, then having her leave me devastated. Enter sosuave...

I spent the years after getting my own personal garbage fixed and sorted, married a cvnt, and had a baby.

Only now do I see that I could have spent the decade of my 20s on much better things. I still would have had enough time for dating a wide variety of beautiful women in my 30s, which is what I'm doing now. Don't get me wrong, my life is pretty good. I have my 5hit together really well, but I could have been better off.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A HB10's sh!t sprays the bowl after Mexican food too!

Never pedestalize women.
 
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Desdinova said:
Don't get me wrong, my life is pretty good. I have my 5hit together really well, but I could have been better off.
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It doesn't matter if you came out hot out of the gate or made a late push, as long as you win the race.
 
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