"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Today I turned 20. Give me one piece of advice

Desdinova

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TheCWord said:
They're all getting married now, feels like there's at least 3 weddings a year lately and more coming...
The year I got married, three of my other friends got married. All four of those marriages have ended. You will likely see your friends returning to the single life in their 30s.

I wish to hell I could have focused on getting myself positioned in a home-grown business in my 20s. Circumstances never turned out that way. I ended up moving out of my parents' house at age 20 because it was too intolerable there, getting engaged, then having her leave me devastated. Enter sosuave...

I spent the years after getting my own personal garbage fixed and sorted, married a cvnt, and had a baby.

Only now do I see that I could have spent the decade of my 20s on much better things. I still would have had enough time for dating a wide variety of beautiful women in my 30s, which is what I'm doing now. Don't get me wrong, my life is pretty good. I have my 5hit together really well, but I could have been better off.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A HB10's sh!t sprays the bowl after Mexican food too!

Never pedestalize women.
 

TheCWord

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Desdinova said:
Don't get me wrong, my life is pretty good. I have my 5hit together really well, but I could have been better off.
It doesn't matter if you came out hot out of the gate or made a late push, as long as you win the race.
 
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