"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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To women, ambition = money

Atom Smasher

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I see so many guys getting hung up on their financial status to the point where it affects their ability to relate to women.

One thing I have learned in my life is that in a woman's mind, expressed ambition is equal to having money.

Women are hugely turned on by ambition, and that's a plus for you because all you have to do is tell her about your dreams and things you are striving for. She is hard-wired to automatically accept your ambition as equivalent to your already being wealthy.

Try this out if you doubt it. At the appropriate time (knowing the appropriate time is key so you don't sound like you're bragging) talk about what you aspire to and watch her reactions. She will demonstrate "tells" that she is very turned on by your ambitions. Think about timing, though. Stay calibrated.

Couldn't be easier. <wink>
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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zekko

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I agree with this, especially for young guys. If it looks like you have a future, and a good plan to get there, she may want to invest in your potential.
 

Tiguere

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yeap tom leykis also says it. you dont need to have actual money just POTENTIAL.

you could be 30..unemployed living in your parents basement but once you tell her the reason you are living like this is because all your money is invested into chachacha university working towards your law degree she will start investing herself.
 
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