"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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To women, ambition = money

Atom Smasher

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I see so many guys getting hung up on their financial status to the point where it affects their ability to relate to women.

One thing I have learned in my life is that in a woman's mind, expressed ambition is equal to having money.

Women are hugely turned on by ambition, and that's a plus for you because all you have to do is tell her about your dreams and things you are striving for. She is hard-wired to automatically accept your ambition as equivalent to your already being wealthy.

Try this out if you doubt it. At the appropriate time (knowing the appropriate time is key so you don't sound like you're bragging) talk about what you aspire to and watch her reactions. She will demonstrate "tells" that she is very turned on by your ambitions. Think about timing, though. Stay calibrated.

Couldn't be easier. <wink>
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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zekko

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I agree with this, especially for young guys. If it looks like you have a future, and a good plan to get there, she may want to invest in your potential.
 

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yeap tom leykis also says it. you dont need to have actual money just POTENTIAL.

you could be 30..unemployed living in your parents basement but once you tell her the reason you are living like this is because all your money is invested into chachacha university working towards your law degree she will start investing herself.
 
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