"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To women, ambition = money

Atom Smasher

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I see so many guys getting hung up on their financial status to the point where it affects their ability to relate to women.

One thing I have learned in my life is that in a woman's mind, expressed ambition is equal to having money.

Women are hugely turned on by ambition, and that's a plus for you because all you have to do is tell her about your dreams and things you are striving for. She is hard-wired to automatically accept your ambition as equivalent to your already being wealthy.

Try this out if you doubt it. At the appropriate time (knowing the appropriate time is key so you don't sound like you're bragging) talk about what you aspire to and watch her reactions. She will demonstrate "tells" that she is very turned on by your ambitions. Think about timing, though. Stay calibrated.

Couldn't be easier. <wink>
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I agree with this, especially for young guys. If it looks like you have a future, and a good plan to get there, she may want to invest in your potential.
 

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yeap tom leykis also says it. you dont need to have actual money just POTENTIAL.

you could be 30..unemployed living in your parents basement but once you tell her the reason you are living like this is because all your money is invested into chachacha university working towards your law degree she will start investing herself.
 
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