"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To those guys still self conscious about their looks...

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War Against Betaism

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ChapStick said:
Looks open doors, but it's game that gets you in! I don't disagree with you, but I think looks matters to some extent. A girl won't give you a chance if you're physically ugly to her. Some girls have said I'm downright handsome, and some girls have told me they thought I was ugly.. You can't please everyone..

I don't have as much game as I'd like.. I can easily get numbers and dates with girls, but keeping it going has been a challenge..

Oh well... COngrats to them!
I think even some of the most downright ugly guys can get girls, they just need game. The girls probably would just try to avoid talking to them at first. I mean, one of the famous wolf brothers is married, and those midgets from Guinness Book of World Records are married too.

fertileTurtle said:
I hear an echo.
Really now? You have good ears, you'll at least get girls for being a good listener.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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...the most talented, intelligent, funniest, coolest, most alpha, more often than not have got the good looks.
Not.
 

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War Against Betaism said:
Really now? You have good ears, you'll at least get girls for being a good listener.
You're gay.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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swifTy said:
says the "fertileTurtle"

sorry man, couldn't resist that one.
I love when we have fun with ourselves.
:rolleyes: :flowers:
 

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Well, as I have posted many times, here are my two cents. I work the front desk of a nice hotel, so I have witnessed hundreds of couples come to the desk to check in or what not. Here is my final vote:

Looks do matter! Don't believe guys who say they don't.

If you want to be with a stunning looking girl, you either have to be model handsome yourself or be slightly above average with cash!!

However, I noticed I have seen quite a few "average at best guys" with 7's and 8's.

I.E. Girl comes in last week with her fiancee to see some rooms. This chick was quite good-looking (5'7", cute face, nice tits). Her fiancee was 5'7", 20 lbs. overweight, had a double chin and was as "average" as you could get. If you saw this guy on the street, you would assume if he had a woman, she would be no higher than a 5 or 6.

Last night, a bride (who just got married) came to the desk to check-in. When I saw her, I was like "Wow, she is quite cute (nice eyes, smile). Her husband was 5'9", slightly overweight, average face with bright red hair and freckles. She was noticeably the better looking of the couple.

Keep in mind, seeing couples like this is NOT RARE!!

THE FINAL VERDICT: Having a handsome face and height will get you hot chicks alot easier, but AVERAGE AT BEST men can still land 7's and 8's if they have game.
 

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War Against Betaism said:
Survival value is how well you can survive in the world.
or how well your life is. ^___^
 

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mahon83050 said:
I.E. Girl comes in last week with her fiancee to see some rooms. This chick was quite good-looking (5'7", cute face, nice tits). Her fiancee was 5'7", 20 lbs. overweight, had a double chin and was as "average" as you could get. If you saw this guy on the street, you would assume if he had a woman, she would be no higher than a 5 or 6.


THE FINAL VERDICT: Having a handsome face and height will get you hot chicks alot easier, but AVERAGE AT BEST men can still land 7's and 8's if they have game.
Sup, just wondering, this might sound like a stupid question, but on a scale of 1-10 what exactly would classify as average? Would a 5/10 be a plain/average person? I just needed someone to shed light on my ignorance:confused:
 

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mahon83050 said:
THE FINAL VERDICT: Having a handsome face and height will get you hot chicks alot easier, but AVERAGE AT BEST men can still land 7's and 8's if they have game.
Final verdict: Thread closed.



Do everything you can to improve your looks(posture, clothes, tan, hairstyle, smile, teeth, work out) and forget about all the rest because it doesn't matter. Once you get a real life, where you're doing something that you're very passionate about, then all the rest falls away. Philosophizing about evolutionary theory here is pathetic and pedantic. The end.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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