"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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kdnash82

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I'm not sure how to contact you guys, but I figured I'd put this out there and if anyone knows any of these guys, please foward this on.

One thing I despise is SPAM and receiving this crap almost ruined my entire day. (not literally)


buddha
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Greeting

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Hello,
I'm new here and just wanted to say "hi"

How's it going?

"Buddhism has the characteristics of what would be expected in a cosmic religion for the future: it transcends a personal God, avoids dogmas and theology; it covers both the natural & spiritual, and it is based on a religious sense aspiring from the experience of all things as a meaningful unity" - Albert Einstein

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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penkitten

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was this in a pm to you or a thread?

if any one gets this , click report to moderator and when it asks why say it is spam.
 

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dont know if there is one in the pms, might have to forward it to a mod to show them its spam
 

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I replied "Thanks, I'm converting!"



SPAM ruined your day? Silly buddy!! Tell us how you REALLY feel?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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On a law student forum, I talked to a kid who had a way of tracking people's IP addresses, but he could only do it if someone replied to a private message. He had above average geek-fu hacking skills, but I wonder if this site works the same way?
 

penkitten

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Bible_Belt said:
On a law student forum, I talked to a kid who had a way of tracking people's IP addresses, but he could only do it if someone replied to a private message. He had above average geek-fu hacking skills, but I wonder if this site works the same way?
things that make you go hmmmmmmmmmmmm
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten said:
dont know if there is one in the pms, might have to forward it to a mod to show them its spam
Kitty, why are you forwarding your pms problems to a mod? What's up with that?:D
 

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