Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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kdnash82

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I'm not sure how to contact you guys, but I figured I'd put this out there and if anyone knows any of these guys, please foward this on.

One thing I despise is SPAM and receiving this crap almost ruined my entire day. (not literally)


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Greeting

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Hello,
I'm new here and just wanted to say "hi"

How's it going?

"Buddhism has the characteristics of what would be expected in a cosmic religion for the future: it transcends a personal God, avoids dogmas and theology; it covers both the natural & spiritual, and it is based on a religious sense aspiring from the experience of all things as a meaningful unity" - Albert Einstein

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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penkitten

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was this in a pm to you or a thread?

if any one gets this , click report to moderator and when it asks why say it is spam.
 

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dont know if there is one in the pms, might have to forward it to a mod to show them its spam
 

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I replied "Thanks, I'm converting!"



SPAM ruined your day? Silly buddy!! Tell us how you REALLY feel?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bible_Belt

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On a law student forum, I talked to a kid who had a way of tracking people's IP addresses, but he could only do it if someone replied to a private message. He had above average geek-fu hacking skills, but I wonder if this site works the same way?
 

penkitten

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Bible_Belt said:
On a law student forum, I talked to a kid who had a way of tracking people's IP addresses, but he could only do it if someone replied to a private message. He had above average geek-fu hacking skills, but I wonder if this site works the same way?
things that make you go hmmmmmmmmmmmm
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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penkitten said:
dont know if there is one in the pms, might have to forward it to a mod to show them its spam
Kitty, why are you forwarding your pms problems to a mod? What's up with that?:D
 

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^ :crackup:
 
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