"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm not sure how to contact you guys, but I figured I'd put this out there and if anyone knows any of these guys, please foward this on.

One thing I despise is SPAM and receiving this crap almost ruined my entire day. (not literally)


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Hello,
I'm new here and just wanted to say "hi"

How's it going?

"Buddhism has the characteristics of what would be expected in a cosmic religion for the future: it transcends a personal God, avoids dogmas and theology; it covers both the natural & spiritual, and it is based on a religious sense aspiring from the experience of all things as a meaningful unity" - Albert Einstein

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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was this in a pm to you or a thread?

if any one gets this , click report to moderator and when it asks why say it is spam.
 
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dont know if there is one in the pms, might have to forward it to a mod to show them its spam
 
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I replied "Thanks, I'm converting!"



SPAM ruined your day? Silly buddy!! Tell us how you REALLY feel?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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On a law student forum, I talked to a kid who had a way of tracking people's IP addresses, but he could only do it if someone replied to a private message. He had above average geek-fu hacking skills, but I wonder if this site works the same way?
 
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Bible_Belt said:
On a law student forum, I talked to a kid who had a way of tracking people's IP addresses, but he could only do it if someone replied to a private message. He had above average geek-fu hacking skills, but I wonder if this site works the same way?
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things that make you go hmmmmmmmmmmmm
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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penkitten said:
dont know if there is one in the pms, might have to forward it to a mod to show them its spam
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Kitty, why are you forwarding your pms problems to a mod? What's up with that?:D
 
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