"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To the men who work in major cities/metro areas

Rubirosa

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I have been to many parts of the World, and i can say without hesitation that the people of NYC are some of the friendliest people I've ever met. They have a no B.S. vibe about them, but nevertheless, very friendly

True story : On my first morning in New York, I went to a Manhattan Deli and was standing in line looking up at the menu.......

I made eye contact with one of the guys working behind the counter, and he says in that NY accent... "Howya doing ?"

I automatically say "Umm hi..I'll be ready to order in a moment....right now I'm still deciding....."

The guy goes....."No problem, I was just saying hi, this guy (motions to another dude) will take your order "........

Something like this would NEVER happen in LA
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I live in nyc and can categorically say that women are trash here, incapable of being in a relationship. There are 2 types a) women that have high paying jobs, feel empowered and generally behave like men b) gold diggers
 

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The thing about NYC is that it's a tough town, but everyone's in it together. There's a weird sense of community that arises from living in a ****ty, crazy place. Some people never understand that. I did a consulting gig in NYC for a few months and it took me a couple of weeks to get a handle on it but once I did it wasn't so bad. Now I go back a few times a year and I just roll with it.

I believe it was Carlin who said, "L.A. is a beautiful woman saying, 'F*** me.' New York is an ugly man saying, 'F*** YOU!'"
 
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