"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To the men who work in major cities/metro areas

Rubirosa

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I have been to many parts of the World, and i can say without hesitation that the people of NYC are some of the friendliest people I've ever met. They have a no B.S. vibe about them, but nevertheless, very friendly

True story : On my first morning in New York, I went to a Manhattan Deli and was standing in line looking up at the menu.......

I made eye contact with one of the guys working behind the counter, and he says in that NY accent... "Howya doing ?"

I automatically say "Umm hi..I'll be ready to order in a moment....right now I'm still deciding....."

The guy goes....."No problem, I was just saying hi, this guy (motions to another dude) will take your order "........

Something like this would NEVER happen in LA
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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seasonedplayer

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I live in nyc and can categorically say that women are trash here, incapable of being in a relationship. There are 2 types a) women that have high paying jobs, feel empowered and generally behave like men b) gold diggers
 

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The thing about NYC is that it's a tough town, but everyone's in it together. There's a weird sense of community that arises from living in a ****ty, crazy place. Some people never understand that. I did a consulting gig in NYC for a few months and it took me a couple of weeks to get a handle on it but once I did it wasn't so bad. Now I go back a few times a year and I just roll with it.

I believe it was Carlin who said, "L.A. is a beautiful woman saying, 'F*** me.' New York is an ugly man saying, 'F*** YOU!'"
 
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