"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To the guys who are dating an attractive woman......

Dealing with haters.

  • Never

    Votes: 4 19.0%

  • Very rarely

    Votes: 9 42.9%

  • In moderate amounts

    Votes: 4 19.0%

  • Many, many times...

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stuka1939

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I don't only mean attractive as in Superhot (9's and 10's) but HB 7 and up.

How often do you have to deal with Male haters?

A "Hate" move can be hitting on your girl right in front of you, or unprovokingly disrespecting or talking in a condescening manner to you or you girl.

How often does it happen?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Something you're not telling us, stuka?
 
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Let me put it to you this way. You are far more likely to get ****blocked when you're single and you are in the earliest stages of picking up a hot girl than you are after you got her. Will guys still pursue her if she's hot and try to sneak some pvssy from her? Well yeah but not any worse than they would if she wasn't dating you.
 
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A "Hate" move can be hitting on your girl right in front of you, or unprovokingly disrespecting or talking in a condescening manner to you
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what do you do about them, if they are aquintances ("strangers" that you barely know) or pals?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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this is misleading because no one is going to admit their girl isn't a 7 or above.
 
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I have dated many attractive woman and barely have any problems from other guys.

Of course you get guys hitting on them, but who cares, that is natural.

Don't ever get hate because of it, if anything, only respect.
 
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Gaucho said:
I have dated many attractive woman and barely have any problems from other guys.

Of course you get guys hitting on them, but who cares, that is natural.

Don't ever get hate because of it, if anything, only respect.
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Gaucho said:
I have dated many attractive woman and barely have any problems from other guys.

Of course you get guys hitting on them, but who cares, that is natural.

Don't ever get hate because of it, if anything, only respect.
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Really? Are you one of those 6'3" handsome dudes?

In all honesty, I guess you can only expect to have problems if the girl is SUPERHOT.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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stuka1939 said:
In all honesty, I guess you can only expect to have problems if the girl is SUPERHOT.
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Not from my experience. I've dated two women in the past that were models, one was a miss usa contestant.

They did get hit on, but never in front of me. I think it was more of a respect thing, though I did ocassionally get dirty looks from guys.

Btw, I'm 5'10 in height.
 
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