"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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To the guys who are dating an attractive woman......

Dealing with haters.

  • Never

    Votes: 4 19.0%
  • Very rarely

    Votes: 9 42.9%
  • In moderate amounts

    Votes: 4 19.0%
  • Many, many times...

    Votes: 4 19.0%

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stuka1939

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I don't only mean attractive as in Superhot (9's and 10's) but HB 7 and up.

How often do you have to deal with Male haters?

A "Hate" move can be hitting on your girl right in front of you, or unprovokingly disrespecting or talking in a condescening manner to you or you girl.

How often does it happen?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Bat

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Something you're not telling us, stuka?
 

ketostix

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Let me put it to you this way. You are far more likely to get ****blocked when you're single and you are in the earliest stages of picking up a hot girl than you are after you got her. Will guys still pursue her if she's hot and try to sneak some pvssy from her? Well yeah but not any worse than they would if she wasn't dating you.
 

Caesar20

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A "Hate" move can be hitting on your girl right in front of you, or unprovokingly disrespecting or talking in a condescening manner to you
what do you do about them, if they are aquintances ("strangers" that you barely know) or pals?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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backbreaker

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this is misleading because no one is going to admit their girl isn't a 7 or above.
 

Gaucho

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I have dated many attractive woman and barely have any problems from other guys.

Of course you get guys hitting on them, but who cares, that is natural.

Don't ever get hate because of it, if anything, only respect.
 

mpimpin

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Gaucho said:
I have dated many attractive woman and barely have any problems from other guys.

Of course you get guys hitting on them, but who cares, that is natural.

Don't ever get hate because of it, if anything, only respect.
:up:
 

stuka1939

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Gaucho said:
I have dated many attractive woman and barely have any problems from other guys.

Of course you get guys hitting on them, but who cares, that is natural.

Don't ever get hate because of it, if anything, only respect.


Really? Are you one of those 6'3" handsome dudes?

In all honesty, I guess you can only expect to have problems if the girl is SUPERHOT.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr.Positive

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stuka1939 said:
In all honesty, I guess you can only expect to have problems if the girl is SUPERHOT.
Not from my experience. I've dated two women in the past that were models, one was a miss usa contestant.

They did get hit on, but never in front of me. I think it was more of a respect thing, though I did ocassionally get dirty looks from guys.

Btw, I'm 5'10 in height.
 
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