"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

To the guys who are dating an attractive woman......

Dealing with haters.

  • Never

    Votes: 4 19.0%

  • Very rarely

    Votes: 9 42.9%

  • In moderate amounts

    Votes: 4 19.0%

  • Many, many times...

    Votes: 4 19.0%
  • Total voters
    21
S

stuka1939

Banned
Joined
Dec 11, 2007
Messages
472
Reaction score
11
Location
New Joisey
I don't only mean attractive as in Superhot (9's and 10's) but HB 7 and up.

How often do you have to deal with Male haters?

A "Hate" move can be hitting on your girl right in front of you, or unprovokingly disrespecting or talking in a condescening manner to you or you girl.

How often does it happen?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

T

The Bat

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 12, 2007
Messages
1,017
Reaction score
60
Something you're not telling us, stuka?
 
K

ketostix

Banned
Joined
Feb 10, 2005
Messages
3,871
Reaction score
55
Let me put it to you this way. You are far more likely to get ****blocked when you're single and you are in the earliest stages of picking up a hot girl than you are after you got her. Will guys still pursue her if she's hot and try to sneak some pvssy from her? Well yeah but not any worse than they would if she wasn't dating you.
 
C

Caesar20

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 28, 2003
Messages
162
Reaction score
0
Location
Europe
A "Hate" move can be hitting on your girl right in front of you, or unprovokingly disrespecting or talking in a condescening manner to you
Click to expand...
what do you do about them, if they are aquintances ("strangers" that you barely know) or pals?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

B

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
this is misleading because no one is going to admit their girl isn't a 7 or above.
 
G

Gaucho

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2007
Messages
464
Reaction score
10
I have dated many attractive woman and barely have any problems from other guys.

Of course you get guys hitting on them, but who cares, that is natural.

Don't ever get hate because of it, if anything, only respect.
 
M

mpimpin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 26, 2006
Messages
1,746
Reaction score
14
Location
Bama
Gaucho said:
I have dated many attractive woman and barely have any problems from other guys.

Of course you get guys hitting on them, but who cares, that is natural.

Don't ever get hate because of it, if anything, only respect.
Click to expand...
:up:
 
S

stuka1939

Banned
Joined
Dec 11, 2007
Messages
472
Reaction score
11
Location
New Joisey
Gaucho said:
I have dated many attractive woman and barely have any problems from other guys.

Of course you get guys hitting on them, but who cares, that is natural.

Don't ever get hate because of it, if anything, only respect.
Click to expand...


Really? Are you one of those 6'3" handsome dudes?

In all honesty, I guess you can only expect to have problems if the girl is SUPERHOT.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

M

Mr.Positive

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 13, 2007
Messages
1,855
Reaction score
99
stuka1939 said:
In all honesty, I guess you can only expect to have problems if the girl is SUPERHOT.
Click to expand...
Not from my experience. I've dated two women in the past that were models, one was a miss usa contestant.

They did get hit on, but never in front of me. I think it was more of a respect thing, though I did ocassionally get dirty looks from guys.

Btw, I'm 5'10 in height.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top