Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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To the guys who are dating an attractive woman......

Dealing with haters.

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  • Very rarely

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  • In moderate amounts

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  • Many, many times...

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stuka1939

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I don't only mean attractive as in Superhot (9's and 10's) but HB 7 and up.

How often do you have to deal with Male haters?

A "Hate" move can be hitting on your girl right in front of you, or unprovokingly disrespecting or talking in a condescening manner to you or you girl.

How often does it happen?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Something you're not telling us, stuka?
 
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Let me put it to you this way. You are far more likely to get ****blocked when you're single and you are in the earliest stages of picking up a hot girl than you are after you got her. Will guys still pursue her if she's hot and try to sneak some pvssy from her? Well yeah but not any worse than they would if she wasn't dating you.
 
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A "Hate" move can be hitting on your girl right in front of you, or unprovokingly disrespecting or talking in a condescening manner to you
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what do you do about them, if they are aquintances ("strangers" that you barely know) or pals?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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this is misleading because no one is going to admit their girl isn't a 7 or above.
 
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I have dated many attractive woman and barely have any problems from other guys.

Of course you get guys hitting on them, but who cares, that is natural.

Don't ever get hate because of it, if anything, only respect.
 
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Gaucho said:
I have dated many attractive woman and barely have any problems from other guys.

Of course you get guys hitting on them, but who cares, that is natural.

Don't ever get hate because of it, if anything, only respect.
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Gaucho said:
I have dated many attractive woman and barely have any problems from other guys.

Of course you get guys hitting on them, but who cares, that is natural.

Don't ever get hate because of it, if anything, only respect.
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Really? Are you one of those 6'3" handsome dudes?

In all honesty, I guess you can only expect to have problems if the girl is SUPERHOT.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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stuka1939 said:
In all honesty, I guess you can only expect to have problems if the girl is SUPERHOT.
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Not from my experience. I've dated two women in the past that were models, one was a miss usa contestant.

They did get hit on, but never in front of me. I think it was more of a respect thing, though I did ocassionally get dirty looks from guys.

Btw, I'm 5'10 in height.
 
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