shesabranchswinger
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what is the oldest age woman you would marry and how old are you
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
To the guys thinking about marriage
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I'm 43, I'd go for maximum of 25ish...anything older, is too much baggage.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I'm 41. Believe it or not, I'm with a 46 y/o right now, and I'm very happy. Her kids are grown, so the baggage is minimal. She's been married to one guy since she was 18, and I like that about her in a lot of ways. If she had been Internet dating for just a few years, I think she would be a very different person, more jaded and less giving.
Last year I was with a few girls half my age. I can get that if I want it, but they bore me quickly. Today's 20 y/o is mentally about 12.
Last year I was with a few girls half my age. I can get that if I want it, but they bore me quickly. Today's 20 y/o is mentally about 12.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Especially if they're attractive, everything gets handed to them...except for this guy!
Throw them for a loop, break the pattern...they'll start thinking.
Be impossible, Be...
awesome!!!
shesabranchswinger
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It's such a toss up now a days mentally. I went out with a 41 year old weeks back who was mentally like a teenager. It's kind of a big let down when you see one you gel with acting like a little girl. Then another one 43 playing the same games. If I wanted a little girl I'd be dating one.
Yeah bible_belt seems like you got lucky along with your skills.
If I were to find a keeper and we both agreed we wanted kids marriage and a prenup, she would have to be between 22-35
If we did not want kids 22- 49 depending on her looks and how mature she is.
Yeah bible_belt seems like you got lucky along with your skills.
If I were to find a keeper and we both agreed we wanted kids marriage and a prenup, she would have to be between 22-35
If we did not want kids 22- 49 depending on her looks and how mature she is.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
shesabranchswinger
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There are those rare finds but for the most part I agree with you 100%