shesabranchswinger
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what is the oldest age woman you would marry and how old are you
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
To the guys thinking about marriage
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I'm 43, I'd go for maximum of 25ish...anything older, is too much baggage.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I'm 41. Believe it or not, I'm with a 46 y/o right now, and I'm very happy. Her kids are grown, so the baggage is minimal. She's been married to one guy since she was 18, and I like that about her in a lot of ways. If she had been Internet dating for just a few years, I think she would be a very different person, more jaded and less giving.
Last year I was with a few girls half my age. I can get that if I want it, but they bore me quickly. Today's 20 y/o is mentally about 12.
Last year I was with a few girls half my age. I can get that if I want it, but they bore me quickly. Today's 20 y/o is mentally about 12.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Especially if they're attractive, everything gets handed to them...except for this guy!
Throw them for a loop, break the pattern...they'll start thinking.
Be impossible, Be...
awesome!!!
shesabranchswinger
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It's such a toss up now a days mentally. I went out with a 41 year old weeks back who was mentally like a teenager. It's kind of a big let down when you see one you gel with acting like a little girl. Then another one 43 playing the same games. If I wanted a little girl I'd be dating one.
Yeah bible_belt seems like you got lucky along with your skills.
If I were to find a keeper and we both agreed we wanted kids marriage and a prenup, she would have to be between 22-35
If we did not want kids 22- 49 depending on her looks and how mature she is.
Yeah bible_belt seems like you got lucky along with your skills.
If I were to find a keeper and we both agreed we wanted kids marriage and a prenup, she would have to be between 22-35
If we did not want kids 22- 49 depending on her looks and how mature she is.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
shesabranchswinger
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There are those rare finds but for the most part I agree with you 100%