shesabranchswinger
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what is the oldest age woman you would marry and how old are you
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
To the guys thinking about marriage
- Thread starter shesabranchswinger
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I'm 43, I'd go for maximum of 25ish...anything older, is too much baggage.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I'm 41. Believe it or not, I'm with a 46 y/o right now, and I'm very happy. Her kids are grown, so the baggage is minimal. She's been married to one guy since she was 18, and I like that about her in a lot of ways. If she had been Internet dating for just a few years, I think she would be a very different person, more jaded and less giving.
Last year I was with a few girls half my age. I can get that if I want it, but they bore me quickly. Today's 20 y/o is mentally about 12.
Last year I was with a few girls half my age. I can get that if I want it, but they bore me quickly. Today's 20 y/o is mentally about 12.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Especially if they're attractive, everything gets handed to them...except for this guy!
Throw them for a loop, break the pattern...they'll start thinking.
Be impossible, Be...
awesome!!!
shesabranchswinger
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It's such a toss up now a days mentally. I went out with a 41 year old weeks back who was mentally like a teenager. It's kind of a big let down when you see one you gel with acting like a little girl. Then another one 43 playing the same games. If I wanted a little girl I'd be dating one.
Yeah bible_belt seems like you got lucky along with your skills.
If I were to find a keeper and we both agreed we wanted kids marriage and a prenup, she would have to be between 22-35
If we did not want kids 22- 49 depending on her looks and how mature she is.
Yeah bible_belt seems like you got lucky along with your skills.
If I were to find a keeper and we both agreed we wanted kids marriage and a prenup, she would have to be between 22-35
If we did not want kids 22- 49 depending on her looks and how mature she is.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
shesabranchswinger
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There are those rare finds but for the most part I agree with you 100%