"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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To the guys that are spinning multiple plates...

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PokerStar

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most (only 3) of my plates I have met through friends.
 

GuanYu

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My top FB met her in 2007 at a job fair

Met another last year at Sears. I happened to be there looking for a good deal on bluetooths and she was too fine to pass up.

I have another I met back in October in school. She was in one of my classes and I got her number. Eventually got her comfortable enough to fvck and the rest is history. I think she's trying to be exclusive but luckily she keeps falling for the "too busy, why change what we have" line.

Working on another chick atm that I met a few days ago while driving down the highway. Saw her staring at me hard at a stoplight so I get her number while we're both driving. I think she may be an AW tho I'll know for sure tonight or tomorrow.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sir Shinra

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Almost all the plates I'm spinning now, and have spun since I got into the game, I met from cold approaches while doing day game on my own. Only one of them I actually met in a club, and she insists that she is "not a party girl," no matter how much I tease her about it. Of course, she rejected my kiss close attempt last night, so its either true or she's good at playing games (or both).

All the other girls I meet in bars/clubs usually don't return my calls/texts. If they do contact me, they are almost always at the bar/club, and I can't be assed to go meet them. Women in Korea live a double life, so the whole club scene thing is swept under the rug.
 
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Actually, no since i go for personality and intelligence as well as bomb looks.I mostly find them in public places, parties, but mostly at college. At my school there is an unofficial saying, "There is a pretty girl for everyguy who is not a d0uce'.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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