thewarrior
Don Juan
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Are you finding most of these chicks at clubs/bars?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
To the guys that are spinning multiple plates...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
darkstarrr
Senior Don Juan
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mall, hair salon, POF, my apt complex, old friend(s) from college (facebook).
they're everywhere.
they're everywhere.
My top FB met her in 2007 at a job fair
Met another last year at Sears. I happened to be there looking for a good deal on bluetooths and she was too fine to pass up.
I have another I met back in October in school. She was in one of my classes and I got her number. Eventually got her comfortable enough to fvck and the rest is history. I think she's trying to be exclusive but luckily she keeps falling for the "too busy, why change what we have" line.
Working on another chick atm that I met a few days ago while driving down the highway. Saw her staring at me hard at a stoplight so I get her number while we're both driving. I think she may be an AW tho I'll know for sure tonight or tomorrow.
Met another last year at Sears. I happened to be there looking for a good deal on bluetooths and she was too fine to pass up.
I have another I met back in October in school. She was in one of my classes and I got her number. Eventually got her comfortable enough to fvck and the rest is history. I think she's trying to be exclusive but luckily she keeps falling for the "too busy, why change what we have" line.
Working on another chick atm that I met a few days ago while driving down the highway. Saw her staring at me hard at a stoplight so I get her number while we're both driving. I think she may be an AW tho I'll know for sure tonight or tomorrow.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sir Shinra
Don Juan
Almost all the plates I'm spinning now, and have spun since I got into the game, I met from cold approaches while doing day game on my own. Only one of them I actually met in a club, and she insists that she is "not a party girl," no matter how much I tease her about it. Of course, she rejected my kiss close attempt last night, so its either true or she's good at playing games (or both).
All the other girls I meet in bars/clubs usually don't return my calls/texts. If they do contact me, they are almost always at the bar/club, and I can't be assed to go meet them. Women in Korea live a double life, so the whole club scene thing is swept under the rug.
All the other girls I meet in bars/clubs usually don't return my calls/texts. If they do contact me, they are almost always at the bar/club, and I can't be assed to go meet them. Women in Korea live a double life, so the whole club scene thing is swept under the rug.
Dante420
Master Don Juan
School.
Dante420
Master Don Juan
School.
Daydream Engineer
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Actually, no since i go for personality and intelligence as well as bomb looks.I mostly find them in public places, parties, but mostly at college. At my school there is an unofficial saying, "There is a pretty girl for everyguy who is not a d0uce'.
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
yea im spinning all my chicks off school...lol idk whats gonna happen when im done..lol hopefully more..life would be grand if i had atleast 8 plates spinning..lol seriously
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.