thewarrior
Don Juan
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Are you finding most of these chicks at clubs/bars?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
To the guys that are spinning multiple plates...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
darkstarrr
Senior Don Juan
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mall, hair salon, POF, my apt complex, old friend(s) from college (facebook).
they're everywhere.
they're everywhere.
My top FB met her in 2007 at a job fair
Met another last year at Sears. I happened to be there looking for a good deal on bluetooths and she was too fine to pass up.
I have another I met back in October in school. She was in one of my classes and I got her number. Eventually got her comfortable enough to fvck and the rest is history. I think she's trying to be exclusive but luckily she keeps falling for the "too busy, why change what we have" line.
Working on another chick atm that I met a few days ago while driving down the highway. Saw her staring at me hard at a stoplight so I get her number while we're both driving. I think she may be an AW tho I'll know for sure tonight or tomorrow.
Met another last year at Sears. I happened to be there looking for a good deal on bluetooths and she was too fine to pass up.
I have another I met back in October in school. She was in one of my classes and I got her number. Eventually got her comfortable enough to fvck and the rest is history. I think she's trying to be exclusive but luckily she keeps falling for the "too busy, why change what we have" line.
Working on another chick atm that I met a few days ago while driving down the highway. Saw her staring at me hard at a stoplight so I get her number while we're both driving. I think she may be an AW tho I'll know for sure tonight or tomorrow.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sir Shinra
Don Juan
Almost all the plates I'm spinning now, and have spun since I got into the game, I met from cold approaches while doing day game on my own. Only one of them I actually met in a club, and she insists that she is "not a party girl," no matter how much I tease her about it. Of course, she rejected my kiss close attempt last night, so its either true or she's good at playing games (or both).
All the other girls I meet in bars/clubs usually don't return my calls/texts. If they do contact me, they are almost always at the bar/club, and I can't be assed to go meet them. Women in Korea live a double life, so the whole club scene thing is swept under the rug.
All the other girls I meet in bars/clubs usually don't return my calls/texts. If they do contact me, they are almost always at the bar/club, and I can't be assed to go meet them. Women in Korea live a double life, so the whole club scene thing is swept under the rug.
Dante420
Master Don Juan
School.
Dante420
Master Don Juan
School.
Daydream Engineer
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Actually, no since i go for personality and intelligence as well as bomb looks.I mostly find them in public places, parties, but mostly at college. At my school there is an unofficial saying, "There is a pretty girl for everyguy who is not a d0uce'.
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
yea im spinning all my chicks off school...lol idk whats gonna happen when im done..lol hopefully more..life would be grand if i had atleast 8 plates spinning..lol seriously
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.