"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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To the curb and back again?

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I have a slight problem...

There've been 3 girls now that I've "kicked to the curb" because they weren't interested(they rejected me) and weren't worth my time.

Thing is, now these 3(yeah i know, all at the same time too, creepy) are starting to warm up and "crawl back". For instance, out of the complete fvcking BLUE, a girl who i asked out smoothly & got rejected two months ago suddenly starts talking to me again and asking to "hang out". Another 'closed the door' on me at a party afew weeks ago when i made my intentions quite clear, and is now asking if we can "meet up". The last is just giving me IOIs after snubbing me in a phone call...

My question is, how should I handle this considering they blew their first chance? Could it just be their inexperience?(2 of them are virgins:))

Part of me is saying: Let them back into my life and have fun with it

The other part is saying: Move on, there's plenty more.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Interesting.

I've had the same thing from inexperienced women. Often, they are unsure, and reject you straightaway. I had one a few months back who I asked out, rejected, flirted again, agreed, day1 great, no day2, then a month or so later she's asking me out instead!

You acted correctly, by cutting off contact when you realised that they were not worth your time.

By that time though, I'd decided to concentrate on playing women and she obviously expected excusivity. (Is that even a word?)

Personally, I'd go with it, but with low expectations.
 
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You know honestly after they give you the run around, it pretty much is moot point to try again. Especially if you had strong feelings for them. I just went through this mess and I should have never tried again. Mine after a few months acted interested and said things like "I thought you were going to call me and we get together and do something this weekend." I did just that and hooked up with her. First date was really nice and I thought she may be coming around. Second date made me realize that I just opened almost closed wounds and she was the flake she always was!!! If you decide to do it....Don't over expect. Once and Flake, Always a Flake!!
 
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