"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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To snip or not to snip

returnofpigman

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I am 52. I have two daughters. I am not having more kids. I think I should snip. Mainly because late 20-30 somethings are appealing. Thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kotaix

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If you already have kids and don't want more then what's the point of even risking the legal ramifications of getting another woman pregnant?

sounds like a no-brainer to me
 

KindredSpiritzz

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im 54, same situation. They may appeal to you but what are the chances of you getting one?
Wish i woulda did snipping 30 yrs ago. Most women our age have had hysterectomies or reached menopause so i feel like whats the point? Granted i probably aint gonna be banging any 20 some or 30 some yr olds anymore but if you figure you can get them then yeak id surely get snipped. Thats a landmine you do NOT want to step on this late in life.
 

SirBigBell

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Ive toyed with the idea for years now because I dont want to have more kids. I keep dithering though because a little voice keeps asking me “what if the surgeon makes a mistake and cuts the wrong wire and you spend the rest of your life failing to get it up? Dont risk it bro”
 

2Rocky

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My 2 week old daughter was in the baby carrier in the room while I had mine done...Ideally I would have put a few shots on Ice and done it far younger....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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