returnofpigman
Don Juan
I am 52. I have two daughters. I am not having more kids. I think I should snip. Mainly because late 20-30 somethings are appealing. Thoughts?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
To snip or not to snip
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
KindredSpiritzz
Senior Don Juan
im 54, same situation. They may appeal to you but what are the chances of you getting one?
Wish i woulda did snipping 30 yrs ago. Most women our age have had hysterectomies or reached menopause so i feel like whats the point? Granted i probably aint gonna be banging any 20 some or 30 some yr olds anymore but if you figure you can get them then yeak id surely get snipped. Thats a landmine you do NOT want to step on this late in life.
Wish i woulda did snipping 30 yrs ago. Most women our age have had hysterectomies or reached menopause so i feel like whats the point? Granted i probably aint gonna be banging any 20 some or 30 some yr olds anymore but if you figure you can get them then yeak id surely get snipped. Thats a landmine you do NOT want to step on this late in life.
SirBigBell
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Ive toyed with the idea for years now because I dont want to have more kids. I keep dithering though because a little voice keeps asking me “what if the surgeon makes a mistake and cuts the wrong wire and you spend the rest of your life failing to get it up? Dont risk it bro”
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.