returnofpigman
Don Juan
I am 52. I have two daughters. I am not having more kids. I think I should snip. Mainly because late 20-30 somethings are appealing. Thoughts?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
To snip or not to snip
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
KindredSpiritzz
Senior Don Juan
im 54, same situation. They may appeal to you but what are the chances of you getting one?
Wish i woulda did snipping 30 yrs ago. Most women our age have had hysterectomies or reached menopause so i feel like whats the point? Granted i probably aint gonna be banging any 20 some or 30 some yr olds anymore but if you figure you can get them then yeak id surely get snipped. Thats a landmine you do NOT want to step on this late in life.
Wish i woulda did snipping 30 yrs ago. Most women our age have had hysterectomies or reached menopause so i feel like whats the point? Granted i probably aint gonna be banging any 20 some or 30 some yr olds anymore but if you figure you can get them then yeak id surely get snipped. Thats a landmine you do NOT want to step on this late in life.
SirBigBell
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Ive toyed with the idea for years now because I dont want to have more kids. I keep dithering though because a little voice keeps asking me “what if the surgeon makes a mistake and cuts the wrong wire and you spend the rest of your life failing to get it up? Dont risk it bro”
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.