You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well nothings going to help except you. You could read up for a week on specifc things by approaching 12 sets and unless you have the balls to do it then its worth nothingOriginally posted by Mr Shy
that doesnt help
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Maybe this will help...Originally posted by Mr Shy
that doesnt help
ROFL!!! never looked at it this way. Thanks LikOriginally posted by LikRetsam
It's finally happened! I'm imune to getting pissed off at retarded posts?!!?!? YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY.
It's time to apply Lik Therapy.
Question 1)
What is the difference in between 1 girl and 6?(Besides the number, smart ass)
Question 2)
Why in God's name would another girl be a disadvantage?
In a group, there are more opportunites/things to pick up on. Area of effect DJing means you're hitting 6 at the same time. 6 times the pimping in the same amount of time as 1.
HUMANITY HAS MADE YOU WEAK!
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.