I've been chilln with this girl for about a month now. We went on about 5 dates been makin out and holdin each other. I saw her on friday and it went really well at my house. I stopped by her dorm last night, but her roomate was there and she was acting a little different. she didnt want to kiss me or get close with her roomate there. She then mentioned that I can never keep a straight face and that I look and sound unconvincing when I say things so she can never tell if im serious or not. I joke around a lot with her so Im thinking I need to be more serious and strong. I felt like we was close to being together, but this kind of discouraged me. I really want to see her on tuesday before the holiday to get things physical again and feel better about this, but on the other end I was thinking about playing it coool and not seeing her for a bit which would be hard for me but I dont want to seem needy. EVerythings been real smooth till last night and even this might just be all in my head since she was laughin a lot. What do you guys think?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
to see or not to see her
- Thread starter Dman101
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