I've been chilln with this girl for about a month now. We went on about 5 dates been makin out and holdin each other. I saw her on friday and it went really well at my house. I stopped by her dorm last night, but her roomate was there and she was acting a little different. she didnt want to kiss me or get close with her roomate there. She then mentioned that I can never keep a straight face and that I look and sound unconvincing when I say things so she can never tell if im serious or not. I joke around a lot with her so Im thinking I need to be more serious and strong. I felt like we was close to being together, but this kind of discouraged me. I really want to see her on tuesday before the holiday to get things physical again and feel better about this, but on the other end I was thinking about playing it coool and not seeing her for a bit which would be hard for me but I dont want to seem needy. EVerythings been real smooth till last night and even this might just be all in my head since she was laughin a lot. What do you guys think?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
to see or not to see her
- Thread starter Dman101
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