I've been chilln with this girl for about a month now. We went on about 5 dates been makin out and holdin each other. I saw her on friday and it went really well at my house. I stopped by her dorm last night, but her roomate was there and she was acting a little different. she didnt want to kiss me or get close with her roomate there. She then mentioned that I can never keep a straight face and that I look and sound unconvincing when I say things so she can never tell if im serious or not. I joke around a lot with her so Im thinking I need to be more serious and strong. I felt like we was close to being together, but this kind of discouraged me. I really want to see her on tuesday before the holiday to get things physical again and feel better about this, but on the other end I was thinking about playing it coool and not seeing her for a bit which would be hard for me but I dont want to seem needy. EVerythings been real smooth till last night and even this might just be all in my head since she was laughin a lot. What do you guys think?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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