I've been chilln with this girl for about a month now. We went on about 5 dates been makin out and holdin each other. I saw her on friday and it went really well at my house. I stopped by her dorm last night, but her roomate was there and she was acting a little different. she didnt want to kiss me or get close with her roomate there. She then mentioned that I can never keep a straight face and that I look and sound unconvincing when I say things so she can never tell if im serious or not. I joke around a lot with her so Im thinking I need to be more serious and strong. I felt like we was close to being together, but this kind of discouraged me. I really want to see her on tuesday before the holiday to get things physical again and feel better about this, but on the other end I was thinking about playing it coool and not seeing her for a bit which would be hard for me but I dont want to seem needy. EVerythings been real smooth till last night and even this might just be all in my head since she was laughin a lot. What do you guys think?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
to see or not to see her
- Thread starter Dman101
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