To read or not to read (a girl)

[zigzag77889]

It sounds wise to be observant, read girl's bodylanguage, reactions etx and adjust your game accordingly. Right? I do that. I've also quit drinking.
My success rate has fallen since college. The secret then was - alcohol. I didn't giva a f*ck what a girl might think of me. At the same time I couldn't be observant and notice girl's hints or even reactions. Nevertheless, I was successful.
It's weird - good game requires taking notice of girl's reactions but I achieved best results when I gave no attention at all to reactions.
So, drinking must be still be advisable? Or reding a girl's reactions is overestimated - the attitude of not giving a f*ck does all the work that needs to be done?

 

[bat soup]

Maybe the problem is that you're reading them wrong or putting too much energy into looking for signals, to the point that it stops you from taking action. Alcohol reduces inhibitions so in certain situations it can probably help.

 

[Lookatu]

alcohol = IDGAF to manifest

Learn to have the IDGAF mindset off alchohol.

 

[Kotaix]

If you're looking for approval from a woman's body language and trying to adjust your game based on that then you're already losing. Be genuine, if she doesn't like you then that's her problem.

 

[Poonani Maker]

What if a woman sh!t-tests you by grabbing and asking a random guy (hot) to fvck her in front of you? that you like to watch other guys fvck her? to p!ss you off in the moment? to make you threaten the guy if he gets any closer, which makes her draw closer to you? because you're "jealous" (appearing). You tell her that she's number one, but you still wanna fvck other women, and she's "Christian."

 

[mrgoodstuff]

What if a woman sh!t-tests you by grabbing and asking a random guy (hot) to fvck her in front of you? that you like to watch other guys fvck her? to p!ss you off in the moment? to make you threaten the guy if he gets any closer, which makes her draw closer to you? because you're "jealous" (appearing). You tell her that she's number one, but you still wanna fvck other women, and she's "Christian."

This is an extreme measure, but the reason is more likely the same as why any of these aggressive and disrespectful measures are done. It's done to humiliate you and condition you.

 

[cola]

What if a woman sh!t-tests you by grabbing and asking a random guy (hot) to fvck her in front of you? that you like to watch other guys fvck her? to p!ss you off in the moment? to make you threaten the guy if he gets any closer, which makes her draw closer to you? because you're "jealous" (appearing). You tell her that she's number one, but you still wanna fvck other women, and she's "Christian."

Stuff like this just doesn’t happen to normal adults.