"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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To read or not to read (a girl)

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It sounds wise to be observant, read girl's bodylanguage, reactions etx and adjust your game accordingly. Right? I do that. I've also quit drinking.
My success rate has fallen since college. The secret then was - alcohol. I didn't giva a f*ck what a girl might think of me. At the same time I couldn't be observant and notice girl's hints or even reactions. Nevertheless, I was successful.
It's weird - good game requires taking notice of girl's reactions but I achieved best results when I gave no attention at all to reactions.
So, drinking must be still be advisable?:) Or reding a girl's reactions is overestimated - the attitude of not giving a f*ck does all the work that needs to be done?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maybe the problem is that you're reading them wrong or putting too much energy into looking for signals, to the point that it stops you from taking action. Alcohol reduces inhibitions so in certain situations it can probably help.
 
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If you're looking for approval from a woman's body language and trying to adjust your game based on that then you're already losing. Be genuine, if she doesn't like you then that's her problem.
 
Poonani Maker

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What if a woman sh!t-tests you by grabbing and asking a random guy (hot) to fvck her in front of you? that you like to watch other guys fvck her? to p!ss you off in the moment? to make you threaten the guy if he gets any closer, which makes her draw closer to you? because you're "jealous" (appearing). You tell her that she's number one, but you still wanna fvck other women, and she's "Christian."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Poonani Maker said:
What if a woman sh!t-tests you by grabbing and asking a random guy (hot) to fvck her in front of you? that you like to watch other guys fvck her? to p!ss you off in the moment? to make you threaten the guy if he gets any closer, which makes her draw closer to you? because you're "jealous" (appearing). You tell her that she's number one, but you still wanna fvck other women, and she's "Christian."
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This is an extreme measure, but the reason is more likely the same as why any of these aggressive and disrespectful measures are done. It's done to humiliate you and condition you.
 
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Poonani Maker said:
What if a woman sh!t-tests you by grabbing and asking a random guy (hot) to fvck her in front of you? that you like to watch other guys fvck her? to p!ss you off in the moment? to make you threaten the guy if he gets any closer, which makes her draw closer to you? because you're "jealous" (appearing). You tell her that she's number one, but you still wanna fvck other women, and she's "Christian."
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Stuff like this just doesn’t happen to normal adults.
 
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