"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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To not care!

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I think a guy would be better with women if he tryed less to impress and just didn't give a ****.

i mean whenever i spend time and do my hair and appearence i don't get anywhere,but when i just don't make much of an effort i find myself doing better.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Morphiex

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girls kinda notice when guys are trying to hard to get them and that is kinda a turn off for them , so yeah it is sometimes better to not give a **** ..... =)
 

organizedconfusion

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it's not soo much not giving a s**t more so then not
looking for soo much approval or validation- for whatever it
is that you are doing. no one cares if you wore your
"lucky pants" or your "good shirt".
 

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Originally posted by organizedconfusion
it's not soo much not giving a s**t more so then not
looking for soo much approval or validation- for whatever it
is that you are doing. no one cares if you wore your
"lucky pants" or your "good shirt".
That's SOO true,i think when i go clubbing tonight i'll wear what I WANT!.
 

DonJuanMonk

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Originally posted by organizedconfusion
it's not soo much not giving a s**t more so then not
looking for soo much approval or validation- for whatever it
is that you are doing. no one cares if you wore your
"lucky pants" or your "good shirt".
:rockon: :rockon: :rockon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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flexion_

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Here is a suggestion.

Next time you really hungry go walk around a grocery store. That feeling you get is what you need to master. That despiration for food is much like that despiration we men can have with women. Its also what women can pick up on...
 
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