"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To not care!

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I think a guy would be better with women if he tryed less to impress and just didn't give a ****.

i mean whenever i spend time and do my hair and appearence i don't get anywhere,but when i just don't make much of an effort i find myself doing better.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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girls kinda notice when guys are trying to hard to get them and that is kinda a turn off for them , so yeah it is sometimes better to not give a **** ..... =)
 

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it's not soo much not giving a s**t more so then not
looking for soo much approval or validation- for whatever it
is that you are doing. no one cares if you wore your
"lucky pants" or your "good shirt".
 

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Originally posted by organizedconfusion
it's not soo much not giving a s**t more so then not
looking for soo much approval or validation- for whatever it
is that you are doing. no one cares if you wore your
"lucky pants" or your "good shirt".
That's SOO true,i think when i go clubbing tonight i'll wear what I WANT!.
 

DonJuanMonk

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Originally posted by organizedconfusion
it's not soo much not giving a s**t more so then not
looking for soo much approval or validation- for whatever it
is that you are doing. no one cares if you wore your
"lucky pants" or your "good shirt".
:rockon: :rockon: :rockon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Here is a suggestion.

Next time you really hungry go walk around a grocery store. That feeling you get is what you need to master. That despiration for food is much like that despiration we men can have with women. Its also what women can pick up on...
 
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