Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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To not care!

LoveBOT

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I think a guy would be better with women if he tryed less to impress and just didn't give a ****.

i mean whenever i spend time and do my hair and appearence i don't get anywhere,but when i just don't make much of an effort i find myself doing better.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Morphiex

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girls kinda notice when guys are trying to hard to get them and that is kinda a turn off for them , so yeah it is sometimes better to not give a **** ..... =)
 

organizedconfusion

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it's not soo much not giving a s**t more so then not
looking for soo much approval or validation- for whatever it
is that you are doing. no one cares if you wore your
"lucky pants" or your "good shirt".
 

LoveBOT

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Originally posted by organizedconfusion
it's not soo much not giving a s**t more so then not
looking for soo much approval or validation- for whatever it
is that you are doing. no one cares if you wore your
"lucky pants" or your "good shirt".
That's SOO true,i think when i go clubbing tonight i'll wear what I WANT!.
 

DonJuanMonk

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Originally posted by organizedconfusion
it's not soo much not giving a s**t more so then not
looking for soo much approval or validation- for whatever it
is that you are doing. no one cares if you wore your
"lucky pants" or your "good shirt".
:rockon: :rockon: :rockon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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flexion_

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Here is a suggestion.

Next time you really hungry go walk around a grocery store. That feeling you get is what you need to master. That despiration for food is much like that despiration we men can have with women. Its also what women can pick up on...
 
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