"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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To not care!

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I think a guy would be better with women if he tryed less to impress and just didn't give a ****.

i mean whenever i spend time and do my hair and appearence i don't get anywhere,but when i just don't make much of an effort i find myself doing better.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Morphiex

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girls kinda notice when guys are trying to hard to get them and that is kinda a turn off for them , so yeah it is sometimes better to not give a **** ..... =)
 

organizedconfusion

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it's not soo much not giving a s**t more so then not
looking for soo much approval or validation- for whatever it
is that you are doing. no one cares if you wore your
"lucky pants" or your "good shirt".
 

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Originally posted by organizedconfusion
it's not soo much not giving a s**t more so then not
looking for soo much approval or validation- for whatever it
is that you are doing. no one cares if you wore your
"lucky pants" or your "good shirt".
That's SOO true,i think when i go clubbing tonight i'll wear what I WANT!.
 

DonJuanMonk

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Originally posted by organizedconfusion
it's not soo much not giving a s**t more so then not
looking for soo much approval or validation- for whatever it
is that you are doing. no one cares if you wore your
"lucky pants" or your "good shirt".
:rockon: :rockon: :rockon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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flexion_

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Here is a suggestion.

Next time you really hungry go walk around a grocery store. That feeling you get is what you need to master. That despiration for food is much like that despiration we men can have with women. Its also what women can pick up on...
 
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