KnoXViLLe331
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i am 17 years old, and a 13 yr old came up to me and asked me to hook up with her..would you do it?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Originally posted by SmartOne
there are no bad strings attached.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
At that age, that is too big of an age difference. I also think it might be illegal in some states. As a parent I will say point blank that if I were the mother of that girl and an older guy was messing with her I'd go beat the living f*ck out of his mother for not teaching her kid right from wrong.Originally posted by SmartOne
dude, just get the knob and leave her, use her what shes good for. and make sure she has no other way of contact w/ u after that. if she came up to u, then surely she just wants some fun and there are no bad strings attached. Do it
I have a little sister right around that age. If I found out about this, I'd beat the ever living piss out of you. Stick to a 2 year rule until you're 20. Then go by half your age + seven or higher(if you want to be morally acceptable in society), or at least 18 and up.Originally posted by KnoXViLLe331
i am 17 years old, and a 13 yr old came up to me and asked me to hook up with her..would you do it?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.