KnoXViLLe331
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i am 17 years old, and a 13 yr old came up to me and asked me to hook up with her..would you do it?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Originally posted by SmartOne
there are no bad strings attached.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
At that age, that is too big of an age difference. I also think it might be illegal in some states. As a parent I will say point blank that if I were the mother of that girl and an older guy was messing with her I'd go beat the living f*ck out of his mother for not teaching her kid right from wrong.Originally posted by SmartOne
dude, just get the knob and leave her, use her what shes good for. and make sure she has no other way of contact w/ u after that. if she came up to u, then surely she just wants some fun and there are no bad strings attached. Do it
I have a little sister right around that age. If I found out about this, I'd beat the ever living piss out of you. Stick to a 2 year rule until you're 20. Then go by half your age + seven or higher(if you want to be morally acceptable in society), or at least 18 and up.Originally posted by KnoXViLLe331
i am 17 years old, and a 13 yr old came up to me and asked me to hook up with her..would you do it?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.