FunkyMillion
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That's the question guys. What are your rule when it comes to waitresses? Is it cool to hit on a waitress?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
To hit or not to hit on waitresses
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
they're working you for a big tip. Especially ****tail waitresses in a bar, they'll flirt with you because a lot of guys will tip extremely well if they think they're getting laid. Trust me, I've worked in enough bars and restaurants to know this.
Well...I've fvcked enough bartenders and waitresses to know that it isn't always true! Tip good, but not supplicating good. If you have half a brain, you can tell the difference between flirting for tips, and real ioi's. Of course, Im always a regular of the girls when I bang them. I havent cold approached one I didnt know in a strange place, and gotten any, though.
I've found that for asking them out, I just throw out an idea for seeing a live band and see if they want to go. If they are interested, and dont have to work, they will go, no matter who the band is.
In general, servers are kind of slvtty, so take advantage of it.
I've found that for asking them out, I just throw out an idea for seeing a live band and see if they want to go. If they are interested, and dont have to work, they will go, no matter who the band is.
In general, servers are kind of slvtty, so take advantage of it.
That's different, they're less likely to work a regular, who would have already built a rapport with them by that point.horaholic said:
lol, yep, that was one of the only things I liked about working in restaurants/bars. I've ****ed more than my fair share (I know, don't **** where you eat, but as long as you keep it casual it's ok).horaholic said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dante420
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Never, at most show her some charm. It's not worth it. 90 percent chance they're working you and 10% chance that you may feel inclined to tip more.
Unbridled_Phoenix
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I say yes, but proceed with a degree of trepidation. I have banged waitresses and bartenders, but always where I was a regular and built good rapport. These girls get hit on, asked for their numbers, and hear cheesy lines all day/night. Flirting and active indifference have always served me well with them.
But what also happens is situations like the one I find myself in YET AGAIN. Started going to another bar awhile ago, the lead bartender came to be all over me, but had a bf. After they broke up, she came on really strong with me. But before I could close her, another waitress there invited me back to her place and, well, the original has been an ice queen ever since. Now there is another new waitress there who I have been flirting with but the other two are still there and I'm stuck wondering just how much clucking these hens have been doing.
Yeah, I know.
The moral of the story is, it's fun to practice and even screw with them but these situations can become a soap opera. You must learn their schedules and know who works on what night, but I now see I may be able to go 3-0 in that bar...
But what also happens is situations like the one I find myself in YET AGAIN. Started going to another bar awhile ago, the lead bartender came to be all over me, but had a bf. After they broke up, she came on really strong with me. But before I could close her, another waitress there invited me back to her place and, well, the original has been an ice queen ever since. Now there is another new waitress there who I have been flirting with but the other two are still there and I'm stuck wondering just how much clucking these hens have been doing.
Yeah, I know.
The moral of the story is, it's fun to practice and even screw with them but these situations can become a soap opera. You must learn their schedules and know who works on what night, but I now see I may be able to go 3-0 in that bar...
Yes, this worked because they were themselves, they weren't putting on an act to get bigger tips from you. With the waitresses I banged I either worked with them or they worked with friends of mine. I'm really hoping I'm gonna get this new job at a new upscale bar, all the girls that were at my interview were hot, like hb8 on average.Unbridled_Phoenix said:
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Another case of Hooters!!!
I ended up getting a date with a Hooters girl, but only because my car was like a pseudo-BMW and I was popular at my school. Other than that, I know in my right mind that without it, it would've been hella harder to get her.
Don't you motherf**kers realize that the waitresses are being flirty to get a bigger tip from you? You're not gonna get laid and you're not gonna be her boyfriend. There are four 6's that women find important and you'd better have them all before even getting to know the b**ch!
Don't believe the hype, or the hypothetical when it comes to waitresses' initiation.
I ended up getting a date with a Hooters girl, but only because my car was like a pseudo-BMW and I was popular at my school. Other than that, I know in my right mind that without it, it would've been hella harder to get her.
Don't you motherf**kers realize that the waitresses are being flirty to get a bigger tip from you? You're not gonna get laid and you're not gonna be her boyfriend. There are four 6's that women find important and you'd better have them all before even getting to know the b**ch!
Don't believe the hype, or the hypothetical when it comes to waitresses' initiation.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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How often does that work?Wolf said: