Yeah of course. If you think about most flakes that will come to mind right away, they're always cool. That's why you keep hanging out with em. They have confidence, etc. The confidence doesn't come from flaking, the flaking comes from the confidence. It's just a part of their confidence.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
To Flake or not to Flake.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Master Don Juan
Yea that's why these DJ techniques are just a waste of time. If you know some basic group psychology and can stand acting really dumb, ignorant and fake for extended periods of time... you can bang any chick you want.
sigh... i hate acting fake, but that's how girls determine who they sleep with.
sigh... i hate acting fake, but that's how girls determine who they sleep with.
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Master Don Juan
bullsh!t, bullsh!t, BULLSH!T!!!Play the Game said:
I have never gotten a single woman to have sex with me using the DJ Techniques OR by acting fake. It's bullsh!t to act fake and people will get less girls if they do so.
Acting real with your own personality is the way of the DJ, not through techniques. You still have much to learn if you believe that techniques are the way to go. The fundamentals is what you need and then to be your best self.
Fundementals include teasing, acting like a man, becoming the man of your dream, and etc. C/F'ing unnaturally, give/take, and etc. unnaturally just to get women is bullsh!t and hides the true you.
It's funny how I managed to be entirely sober and just being myself during college and got with five or six different girls in the course of a month period (success rate of 80%
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I never do that.That's crazy.