"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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To Flake or not to Flake.

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Yeah of course. If you think about most flakes that will come to mind right away, they're always cool. That's why you keep hanging out with em. They have confidence, etc. The confidence doesn't come from flaking, the flaking comes from the confidence. It's just a part of their confidence.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yea that's why these DJ techniques are just a waste of time. If you know some basic group psychology and can stand acting really dumb, ignorant and fake for extended periods of time... you can bang any chick you want.

sigh... i hate acting fake, but that's how girls determine who they sleep with.
 

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Play the Game said:
Yea that's why these DJ techniques are just a waste of time. If you know some basic group psychology and can stand acting really dumb, ignorant and fake for extended periods of time... you can bang any chick you want.

sigh... i hate acting fake, but that's how girls determine who they sleep with.
bullsh!t, bullsh!t, BULLSH!T!!!

I have never gotten a single woman to have sex with me using the DJ Techniques OR by acting fake. It's bullsh!t to act fake and people will get less girls if they do so.

Acting real with your own personality is the way of the DJ, not through techniques. You still have much to learn if you believe that techniques are the way to go. The fundamentals is what you need and then to be your best self.

Fundementals include teasing, acting like a man, becoming the man of your dream, and etc. C/F'ing unnaturally, give/take, and etc. unnaturally just to get women is bullsh!t and hides the true you.

It's funny how I managed to be entirely sober and just being myself during college and got with five or six different girls in the course of a month period (success rate of 80% :p )

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I never do that.That's crazy.
 
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