Yeah of course. If you think about most flakes that will come to mind right away, they're always cool. That's why you keep hanging out with em. They have confidence, etc. The confidence doesn't come from flaking, the flaking comes from the confidence. It's just a part of their confidence.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
To Flake or not to Flake.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Master Don Juan
Yea that's why these DJ techniques are just a waste of time. If you know some basic group psychology and can stand acting really dumb, ignorant and fake for extended periods of time... you can bang any chick you want.
sigh... i hate acting fake, but that's how girls determine who they sleep with.
sigh... i hate acting fake, but that's how girls determine who they sleep with.
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Master Don Juan
bullsh!t, bullsh!t, BULLSH!T!!!Play the Game said:
I have never gotten a single woman to have sex with me using the DJ Techniques OR by acting fake. It's bullsh!t to act fake and people will get less girls if they do so.
Acting real with your own personality is the way of the DJ, not through techniques. You still have much to learn if you believe that techniques are the way to go. The fundamentals is what you need and then to be your best self.
Fundementals include teasing, acting like a man, becoming the man of your dream, and etc. C/F'ing unnaturally, give/take, and etc. unnaturally just to get women is bullsh!t and hides the true you.
It's funny how I managed to be entirely sober and just being myself during college and got with five or six different girls in the course of a month period (success rate of 80%
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I never do that.That's crazy.