“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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To everyone I sent the book on Cold Reading...

I'm Joe Dirt

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Well I've sent a lot of copies of that book out to people a few days ago.

So what do you guys all think?

Was it worth your time?

Did it inspire you to read up more on the subject?

Have you been able to try any of it out?

Let's hear your feedback!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Being in High School, it didn't seem to apply much to me. It was mostly just lists of traits that certain groups have, which I found somewhat useless. Ah well, a good read nonetheless.
 

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Well the idea behind the traits is that in one category they were Barnum statements which means statements that apply to almost everyone and YET the person who is being told this thinks its pretty unique to them.

The other lists were groups, meaning that people who have some traits also tend to have the others, so if you can identify which category a person goes into you can tell them other stuff about them that isn't related to your observations but still accurate.

So what did the rest of you think? I sent the book out to at least 15+ people, c'mon guys! The least you can do is share your feedback.

I agree though that the book lacked specific scripts or phrases or tricks, it was really just a general overview with some basic info.

I am still waiting for Ian Rowland's book which is the definitive guide to cold reading according virtually every reviewer of it and it DOES include SPECIFIC tricks and phrases to use. I'll let you guys know how it is when I get it.
 

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It was a pretty interesting read. I'm the guy who had to fake knowing a chick, remember? That plan fell through, so I didn't get to test it out yet. I'll get around to it.
 

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Thanks for sending that to me. I've been super super busy this week so I haven't had time to read it. Hopefully I can cram it in this weekend. I'll post here when I do.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I suppose it's useful if you want to do parlor tricks like tarot cards or palm reading, but it's really geared to the person that wants to make a living doing it. Overall, too much trouble to learn just to impress chicks. At least for me. Of course I did the 10 minute read/scan since I've been so busy.

But thanks for the book! It was worth a look.
 

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IJD,

I haven't got your book, but i know cold reading is handy and easy to learn. Sure you can use it as a gimmick with palmestry etc but I've found it very good if coupled with the -I have an intuition about you- type of track.

Well worth reading up on.
 

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Looks good. I haven't had time to read it yet I will try to read it later though.
 

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Wouldn't open? Try to get the latest version of adobe. Or was the file corrupt? I can resend it if you want...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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